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David asked to take the National Boater's Safety Course for his 13th birthday and received his first driver's license from the Texas Parks and Wildlife Department, thus relegating me forever to the boat's passenger seat. We were becoming known in local bass fishing circles, and I began receiving invitations to fish with and join local bass clubs. The problem was that I was invited, but not with my son. Like most people, my recreation time and money is limited and what little I had was going to be spent with my family. Fishing was what my son and I did together. We learned to fish together. We worked on the boat together. I was not willing to participate in a bass fishing club, unless we could do that together as well. Then a friend introduced me to the Central Texas Bass Anglers, a Honey Hole affiliated club with about 25 members who would consider allowing David to fish. The requirements were that he conducts himself as a young man (not a kid), and that I provide a notarized waiver of liability. Seemed fair to me, so we joined. It is a draw club and we have one boat. One month I'm the boater, the next month David is the boater. That was a little more than a year ago while David was still just 13. This year, at 14, my son qualified for and represented our club in the Honey Hole BCA Top Six Championship at Lake Livingston. As for me, the happiness, pride, and self esteem fishing has brought to my son is more than trophy enough for this man. What am I trying to say here? Go fishing - not broke. Ease into the sport according to your own pace and pocket book. Learn from any source you trust, but when it comes to money always remember a 20-year-old young man caught the World Record black bass, with a total equipment and tackle investment of less than $5.00 and that included the boat! Share the experience with friends and family. The rewards are countless and the cost? Well, a sunset on the water, seeing nature without fences, growing closer to your child or a friend, and the thrill of a big old bass ripping line - those rewards and so many more like them - they are all free. Sincerely, Wayne Crook David O'Neal's Dad (step) The back of the photo of David had a note that said it was taken in May of 1998. "He's grown a lot since, but I like this picture," wrote Wayne. I like it, too. It's nice to know that with determination and carefully laid plans people can achieve what has only been previously dreamed of. Put your young one's dreams to work. The respect and closeness gained is worth every effort and every dime spent. If they want to compete try starting them in a club or events like our Family Fishing Tournaments. Like Wayne, you could be the real winner. Debra Dean, Editor of Honey Hole Magazine Fishing With Dad The Goal Is Sharing Share The Heritage The Future of Fishing Teaching Kids To Fish It's A Red Ear Sunfish! Water Works Wonders Reflecting On Our Sport Future Of Outdoor Sports Special Tribute To My Dad A Little Time With The Kids Kids: Take Your Mom Fishing Take Someone Else's Kid Fishin Fishing - What It Means To Me |
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