a connector that connects my flip bar on my reel broke off and apparently they do not sell spare parts for this reel,does anybody has one that is not in operation of use and has the part that I needd or know where i can get one.

Try your local reel repair shops- and even non-local. They have tons of used parts in most of them, and any reel shop worth their weight in reels keeps boxes of used broken reels just for this reason.

 

Also check ebay. JDtreasures and stickercathy are some I deal with regularly who have tons of used parts.

 

Go to ebay and type in your reel's brand and model number and click search. When all the reels and parts for sale pop up, click on 'start with lowest prices' first and that is where you will find most of your reel's parts.