you just have to find a gal who loves fishing! before i started dating my boyfriend, i had never fished, and had a different perspective of what it entails. i went out with him once, just to see if i could tolerate going out with him once in awhile, since he loves it. never did i know i would fall in love with the sport, and will even wake up at 4 am to catch the morning bite. sometimes, girls just need a nudge from their guy to venture into unchartered waters.