I fish with my 5 year old son as much as I can. One thing I've learned is it really doesnt matter what you catch just as long as he is catching something. He wants to fish for bass, but his patience(and mine) leave quickly, so by the end of the day I put a bobber and a worm on and let him catch bream. Its makes his day! I make it as positive as an experience as I can. As far as lures go-anything weedless!!!! t-rig plastics,flukes,and tubes. Remember your sowing the seeds for a future fisherman, so patience is the key. Your kids will remember your adventures on the lake forever!