clayton86

i posted some pics in the other species page we've been catching alot of needle fish, queen fish, I got what looks like a grouper on the last trip just cant tell what kind some one said a baby Goliath grouper cuz of the color but I have no clue i'll do an updated post here soon

it is from the fairy odd parents I ordered them off ebay hoping they were much much bigger I was hoping for like 1oz or 1.5oz ones these are barely 1/4oz

for a second I thought it was gonna be a pic of you with out the famous camo shorts

I ordered some spoons off ebay for fishing here in kuwait there not quite what i expected i was thinking they were much bigger but more oddly look at the package

Funny how that works im the same way I usually set an alarm but it never gets to go off I always wake up 15 minutes prior to when it was set for. Kinda sucks some times when I want to sleep in but still wake up at usual times I used to getting up at. Like here on deployment i will get a day off try to sleep all day and catch up but wake up at 1045 for chow regardless then ill go back to bed and then wide awake again at 1645(4:45) for dinner i could just passed out from all day missions exhausted at 1030 1045 hits and im wide awake getting dressed to get food.

oh and I have an ulterior motive to wanting to be there for the Disney trip. they have bass fishing there..................

haha yeah I think the Disney thing is out of the picture she didnt bring it up in the email she sent me last night. the 1000 islands trips gonna be more like a honey moon we never got to have.

im with the rest the guys for that much add a few bucks and go up a notch i got my citica for under 50 at dicks last spring. For an extra 10 bucks u can get a curado off ebay like said or buy a real reel and get a revo sx for just 10 bucks more or even a revo s and save 20 bucks for lures. now that i started the war with the posse its time to go to bed haha

were not fighting fighting this is barely a fight at all she just called me a few names but once said and done we were back to talking like normal its my mom pressing the issue mostly. I don't want her around my wife just has a hard time with her and my mom knows it and will just invite her self over. When im home my mom doesn't come over we don't go over there my moms F-ed me over so many times and my wife and she knows it cuz iv spoke my mind no way a son should talk to there mother but there's a line and she has crossed it many a times. Its gotten to the point I almost took her to court and still want to but my wife wont let me because she stole my wife's SS number put some bills in her name rang it up to a few grand got it shut off and then just acted like it never happened now were stuck with the bills. the wife has access to all the accounts, she has access to all my emails she has passwords for all the forums I go on nothing is in the dark. My wifes good with money she always makes sure all bills are paid before she buys anything and then she asks me if she can buy it before she does even if its burger king she asks me first if its ok. before I get u guys asking why I give her access to everything read my first post in that marriage thread you will see what i did and understand why there's nothing in the dark with her. I also do tell my mom to stay out of my family affairs but with me gone she just does what she wants it happens every time I leave for extended periods of time long training drills where im gone for a few weeks or months the deployment the second im on duty not coming home my mother starts stalking my wife pretty much and just coming over un announced she will stop at my in laws un invited which is odd because our parents hate each other. If im home my mom is no where to be seen and when she calls she gets ignored so she has my sister call and play middle man. One of the reasons I want to move to texas and start working in oil leave all the BS that comes with small towns and crazy mother behind. Now if she followed us to texas then i would be mad that would be some bs.

not sure ww2farmer would be the guy to know about there

thats cheap in New York we have to pay to get our prints and back ground check also but the prints are 120. Background is done by the sherrif no cost i think but one of my buddies trying to get his has to get a mental evail because hes in the army at least what he says anyways but its costing him 500 just for that so if i have to go threw that im looking at 5 bucks for the paper work 120 for prints even though the state has tons on file being a teacher and in the national guard then maybe 500 for that eval im 625 in the hole before I even get a gun and that's even if they decided to give you a permit. I have nothing to warrant being declined but some judges can just be picky i haven't heard many good things bout my county other then if ypu do get it its quick less then 3 months if all references return the calls or letters in a timely mater. I don't have my permit yet I started the paper work but got deployed before i could submit it and am waiting now. Once I get it its concealed carry here but where they like to get ya in New York is what You use it for If you get concealed carry and put u want it for self defense your set but I know of some guys that got screwed buy putting it they want it for hunting well now there not allowed to carry but to and from the woods or range so if your caught with it anywhere but hunting or sighting in your toast.

I wasn't around when we got our GS fixed so im always gonna look like the good guy and my wifes the one taking him to all the vet visits

Thats pretty much what it is she went nuts when I first left and the money started flowing because I had 3 months of paid military leave at my teaching job before I left so we were double dipping for a while. She didn't buy useless stuff it was all clothes/toys for the kids new car seats, got the dog fixed, re did the bathroom, new furniture all stuff we needed and will be there more long term then blowing it on stupid stuff. Your point on the kids age though is what I was trying to convey to her as well there still to young they wont remember it next year if she took them this year. Plus I would want to be there as much as i would dread going I would want to be there. Thats a good way to budget getting things you want vs need. I get paid the same every 1st and 15th so theres no variances one thing we do though besides putting 500 each check into savings what ever we had left over after all the bills are paid and then what ever spending we have between checks what evers left rolls into that 500 to be put away. So say if on the 15th when the check hits and we had 200 left over from before we put that 200 plus the 500 into savings then pay what bills need to be paid and then whats left is ours to spend on what ever I usually buy fishing stuff naturally she likes to go out to eat and take the boys to the zoo or aquarium. I think its worth fighting I think its pointless I also think what set me off about it was the fact apparently its my mom who wants to take them but my moms so far behind on bills its not even funny my sisters and I have been bailing her out for years I finally said enough is enough and stopped helping her because it was my family suffering for her mistakes not having priority's ie. vacation before bills, clothes shopping, going to movies, all before paying bills. So when they say she wants to take my wife and kids to Disney all kinds of reg flags went up because my moms done that before said oh i'll save up and then we get there and she suddenly has no money and im paying for plane tickets and everything else to cover her out of my pocket. My wife would end up getting suckered into paying my moms way because she wont stand up against her and im not there to.

its a good sized lake pretty busy on the weekends

and this is a heart attack waiting to happen its also heaven lol

for your super bowl party john

thats WW2Farmers home lake JFrancho knows it also iv only ice fished there with amazing results I think it might be a bit much for an inflatable

My First Sargent lives in Stafford, Va back on drill weekends he would drive from there to Rochester New York to drill with the guard. living in the country is the best though and im not a people person I don't do well in the city

Am I wrong for this. My wife and kids and my mother are at the aquarium right now and my wife's messaging me and said my mother wants to take her and the kids to Disney in Florida before I get home from this deployment. I flat out told her no and for several reasons, 1 i just bought her a 18k dollar truck because hers was on the way out, 2) I'd like to be there, 3) its stupid expensive, and tacked onto that last one my moms a con artist and I know she will try and get my wife to pay her way even though its her idea and she wants to take them. I'm getting called every name in the book because i wont let them go. Not to mention the other day I just booked a trip with a private cabin and rented a boat for vacation when i go on leave. They think im Mr money bags now that I got promoted. Yeah the kids im sure would have fun there to an extent to me there still to young. Noah is 3 he will understand and have fun and what not but jack isn't even 1 what the hell is he gonna do at Disney. There begging me and im still saying no I think its kinda ridiculous shes already got a new place to live, new truck, vacation 1, and money stashed away in the bank we never were able to do before. Now she wants a second vacation and im the bad guy for saying no. All I see is it as is a huge waste of money I have been there twice once when i was like 8 it was ok from what i can remember then again at 14 and i spent the time tormenting my mother and sisters it was the vacation from hell lol. I don't know am i wrong for saying no should i cancel the weekend in the 1000 islands so they can go to to Disney. Im just thinking mostly on the money aspect of things I want to save up money iv hit my limit on what im willing to dish out on this deployment i got us out of debt but got some buying that truck but iv budgeted everything out im still well within my means even after this and go back to working the civilian job. I just see Disney as a big waste and chunk gone from savings. Maybe in a few years when the kids are older and im home to go also.

I hated my droids switched to iPhone I hate that heap of **** to im done with cell phones lol

weirdest thing iv had deep fried was pickles at first thought it was gross then I tried a bite now if its on the menu I order it there so good. Not a fan of snickers so idk if I would try that maybe reeses though or the butter finger

my wife watches Food network 24/7 I cant watch half the shows they make me soooooo hungry. Im not a big sandwich guy unless its like grilled cheese and tomato soup or peanut butter and fluff man i would kill for a pb and fluff sandwich right now and some doritos to go with it mmmmmm and a youhoo to wash it down lol. Burgers are my thing though every where I go I order what ever specialty burger they have I love burgers

no its not far of a carry 50yards at most depending where you park if you park on the right side of the pond its a short walk. The middle by that point can become pretty weedy but most of its deep open water. From lancaster its about 45 minutes depending which way you go transit obviosly the slowest biggest pain in the arse lol. Back roads can cut time if you know where your going and dont get lost, then theres the 90 and you pay an arm and a leg to drive 20 miles to either pembroke exit or batavia(closest and easiest) another good spot i didnt even think of is the alabama swamps cant canoe or boat though its on the reservation.

yeah I hear ya i was averaging 3 hours of sleep a night for the past week and a half and have been going full throttle all day towards the end of the day I was sounding drunk not talking straight or just coming up with dumb ass ideas lol my wife was getting mad cuz id try ad talk to her and make no sense then just go to bed lol. I finally got to catch some extra zzzzzs last night and don't have much planned for today thankfully maybe hitting the pier for some fishing in the Persian gulf I haven't gone in a while.

I just seen this yesterday now its what im doing lol this sucks