Fishing still occupies a great deal of my free time, but I think the last few years I have made a post maybe every three to six months, more or less. There are a number of reasons for that.
January 1, 2018, my Father passed. On October 20, 2021, my Mother passed. Then on September 27, 2022, my wife lost her son, Justin, at 41 years of age. Cyndee, my wife, has had a lifelong struggle with depression and for the most part, medication kept it in check. Until now. It has been a real struggle for her, and by extension, me as well. On her bad days there is nothing I can do but hold her. Justin had been my stepson for 29 years so this was a shock to me also. Our participation in all social media has practically ended. I think most parents would rather die themselves than lose a child.
My wife retired in 2014 and I retired in the summer of 2018. I have become more interested in hiking and climbing mountains. My wife and I take about 6 vacations a year between early spring and late fall. Between taking care of things at home, spending time with family, planning the logistics for travel, and traveling itself I don't find much time to spend on social media as is.
Forums topics are repetitive and almost every time I begin to provide a response, I realize that the topic will receive responses from any number of members saying similar things to what I have to say.
And finally, we moved to a new home and place last summer. We spent a lot of time looking for places between March and July of 2023 and finally settled on a 5 acre spread north of Excelsior Springs, MO. We had planned on moving to one of the lakes in southern Missouri, but after the death of our son, we both decided it would be best to stay near our Grandchildren in Kansas City, especially for our Grandson who lost his Father.
To more recent arrivals to this forum, this is probably the best time to be a member of Bass Resource. @Glenn has done an amazing job of creating and molding it to be a place free of drama, for the most part. Back in the 2000s there were a lot more arguments, and Glenn responded with appropriate rules to make this place what it is today. I may not participate much but I do appreciate what is here.