I will keep you, your children, and your friends in my thoughts and prayers.

Thank you all for the kind words and support. We all experience grief, I just never realized that "Happily Ever After", doesn't last forever. Yes I am blessed and I know it. Just wish it wasn't over. She really deserved better. Thanks again for the love!

So sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing with us and thank you for the words of wisdom that we all need to remember.

truly sorry for your loss. I pray for your strength and comfort.

On 2/11/2026 at 10:07 AM, Blue Raider Bob said:

At this time please let me implore all of you to remember that Tomorrow is Not Promised.

Thanks for the reminder, Bob.

On 2/11/2026 at 10:07 AM, Blue Raider Bob said:

Please let all your loved ones know now how you feel about them and don't miss an opportunity to reinforce that love every moment for the rest of your time. Some day, you will not get a second chance.

Will do, Bob, will do.

And thanks for sharing your heartbreak, Bob. Our hearts are broken too...for you. For Glenda. For your kids and all who loved her and you.

My friend… there really aren’t words big enough for a loss like that, but please know how deeply sorry we are.

Thirty-six years beside someone like that is a rare and beautiful gift. The way you describe her—up before dawn, running six miles, pouring herself into her kids, her community, wounded veterans, anyone who needed a hand—that’s a life lived with purpose. A life of giving. A life that mattered. She didn’t just share love… she multiplied it everywhere she went.

It’s no surprise that losing someone like that leaves a space that can’t be filled. “I am OK but I’ll never be alright” — that’s such an honest way to put it. Grief doesn’t follow a straight line, and those quiet moments can hit the hardest. The eddies of sorrow are real. But so is the legacy she left behind — in your four children, in the lives she touched, and in the man you became because she believed in you.

You don’t have to project strength here. This place isn’t just about fishing stories — it’s about the people behind them. You’ve been part of this community for years, and we care about you. Truly. When fishing feels heavy, when the water doesn’t bring the peace it once did, that’s okay. Healing doesn’t work on a schedule. One day at a time is enough.

And those words — “Tomorrow Is Never Promised” — hit home. Thank you for sharing that reminder. It’s powerful. We all need to hear it. Love out loud. Say the words. Don’t wait.

Your angel’s life was extraordinary. The love you shared was extraordinary. And that doesn’t end — it changes shape, but it doesn’t end.

We’re here for you, brother. Always.

So incredibly sorry for your loss.

17 hours ago, Glenn said:

My friend… there really aren’t words big enough for a loss like that, but please know how deeply sorry we are.

Thirty-six years beside someone like that is a rare and beautiful gift. The way you describe her—up before dawn, running six miles, pouring herself into her kids, her community, wounded veterans, anyone who needed a hand—that’s a life lived with purpose. A life of giving. A life that mattered. She didn’t just share love… she multiplied it everywhere she went.

It’s no surprise that losing someone like that leaves a space that can’t be filled. “I am OK but I’ll never be alright” — that’s such an honest way to put it. Grief doesn’t follow a straight line, and those quiet moments can hit the hardest. The eddies of sorrow are real. But so is the legacy she left behind — in your four children, in the lives she touched, and in the man you became because she believed in you.

You don’t have to project strength here. This place isn’t just about fishing stories — it’s about the people behind them. You’ve been part of this community for years, and we care about you. Truly. When fishing feels heavy, when the water doesn’t bring the peace it once did, that’s okay. Healing doesn’t work on a schedule. One day at a time is enough.

And those words — “Tomorrow Is Never Promised” — hit home. Thank you for sharing that reminder. It’s powerful. We all need to hear it. Love out loud. Say the words. Don’t wait.

Your angel’s life was extraordinary. The love you shared was extraordinary. And that doesn’t end — it changes shape, but it doesn’t end.

We’re here for you, brother. Always.

Glenn, your reply has brought tears to my eyes.......grateful tears......thank you so much for the kind words and the years of friendship!

Bob, don't know you personally, but you aren't the only one with tears in their eyes reading this.

There's nothing I can add to what has been said, just very sorry for your lost.

Whoa just reading this.

Certainly something you can no way emotionally prepare for.

Praying for healing for everyone that was effected...... such a beautiful woman.

My condolences. I always read Thanatopsis when I lose a loved 1!

Take care

I am so sorry for your loss. Memories are your friend, as she will always be a part of you. Prayers to you and your family.

I am so sorry for your loss. I think about this type of thing a lot. Your words were inspiring.

oh no!!! my deepest condolences!!!

My condolences.

So sorry to read that Bob. She sounds like an incredible woman. I had a bunch written out to express how sorry I am but really no words can express it. I think Glenn and others said it best.

Prayers to you and your family.

Bob is a great guy. I'm hosting him this summer and I hope you find a way to connect with him too.

I'm so sorry to hear.

Sending you comfort and strength. 🙏🙏

My wife “IS” my best friend. So sorry for your loss. Will be praying for you and your family

On 3/28/2026 at 7:34 AM, Justbass11 said:

My wife “IS” my best friend. So sorry for your loss. Will be praying for you and your family

Thanks J! I totally understand how you mean your wife "IS" your best friend. That's how it was with us. As the years went by, I feel our souls just bonded more and became one. It is an emptiness that will never fill. Hold her tight J.

I’m very sorry for your loss. I’m just seeing this post today for the first time so I apologize for the late reply.

Bob, I’m so very sorry for your loss. I’ve been absent since the ground turned white here, catching up now and I also apologize for not seeing this sooner. I cannot possibly imagine how you feel, but I’m very much aware I’m living a very good life right now. Good job, good marriage, good kids (16 and 18) and good health. And I’m for some reason aware this will not be forever, so possibly not just blessed by God for where I am, but blessed that He’s given me the awareness of how good I have it right now. Which I don’t remember everyday, especially in winter I stare at the empty part of my glass too much, but things like your strength to share give me a sobering reminder to not let any day pass without showing love to those who make my life whole. I don’t have a tattoo, likely never will, but if I were to get one it might be along the lines of what you mentioned. “This too shall pass” or “nothing lasts forever”, with the awareness that refers to things both good and bad. Life is a personal journey, for sure - wins and losses, laughter and tears, sunshine and tornadoes.

Thank you for the reminder. God bless.

19 hours ago, The Baron said:

Bob, I’m so very sorry for your loss. I’ve been absent since the ground turned white here, catching up now and I also apologize for not seeing this sooner. I cannot possibly imagine how you feel, but I’m very much aware I’m living a very good life right now. Good job, good marriage, good kids (16 and 18) and good health. And I’m for some reason aware this will not be forever, so possibly not just blessed by God for where I am, but blessed that He’s given me the awareness of how good I have it right now. Which I don’t remember everyday, especially in winter I stare at the empty part of my glass too much, but things like your strength to share give me a sobering reminder to not let any day pass without showing love to those who make my life whole. I don’t have a tattoo, likely never will, but if I were to get one it might be along the lines of what you mentioned. “This too shall pass” or “nothing lasts forever”, with the awareness that refers to things both good and bad. Life is a personal journey, for sure - wins and losses, laughter and tears, sunshine and tornadoes.

Thank you for the reminder. God bless.

That is such a nice letter to post. Thank you so much. I sit daily at my pond just staring sometimes. I had a terrific life as well, just too selfish to let it go. Mainly I feel disappointment for her. She deserved so much better. She lived her life for others. Thank you for sharing your love of family, marriage, and life in general. Hold her close and live your life with no regrets! Thanks friend!