I have been hesitant about sharing this information because this is a forum of like-minded friends who enjoy sharing their fishing experiences. However, this is also a forum of friends that care deeply for each other, and this is evident by the constant well wishes to whomever in need. Therefore I feel this information will be accepted and appreciated.

I lost my angel of 36 years to a ten year battle with various cancers. She passed Sept 29, and life has been an enormous struggle since then. She gave me the most wonderful life and saved me from a life of mediocrity. She gave me four terrific children, and selflessly lived her life for those around her. Her daily ritual was up at 4:00 run six miles, coffee in bed, volunteering at school, scouts, cross country, track, you name it. Her generosity was off the charts. Wounded Warriors, Tunnels to Towers, were just a couple of her constant efforts. Her entire life was one of constant giving, never taking. I lost the most wonderful person, and life will never be the same. I am OK but I'll never be alright. If I can stay busy, I can keep going, it's the idle times that are spent swirling in an eddy of sorrow. Fishing has been difficult but I am hoping that someday, life becomes worthwhile again. I have my four kids to keep me focused. They need a strong dad, and that's what I project when I'm near. Not so much when I'm alone.

Please let me finish by relating something I hope is of interest. My son ran track and cross country in high school. One day at a meet, I noticed a high school age student with the following tattoos on the back of his arms. "Tomorrow is Never Promised". I thought to myself, what tragedy could have happened in this young mans life to warrant such a statement. I came away from that meet thinking about those words. At this time please let me implore all of you to remember that Tomorrow is Not Promised. Please let all your loved ones know now how you feel about them and don't miss an opportunity to reinforce that love every moment for the rest of your time. Some day, you will not get a second chance.

Thank you my BR brethren for your friendship over these past many years and may your families and lives be blessed!

I am truly sorry for your loss. Your sentiment about life is well spoken.

My condolences Bob. Thanks for sharing.

Bob

I’m so very sorry to hear this.

May she Rest In Eternal Peace

Mike

Can't find the words.

Really sorry.

A-Jay

I’m very sorry for your loss. Although I can’t know for certain I like to believe she’s in a better place and wants you to keep moving forward and enjoying yourself because as you said “Tomorrow is not promised”.

Very sorry to hear this. Your words ring true I am sure to almost every one of us.

Oh man, I never know what to say. Sorry about your cherished loss. I think I'll go see my mom now.I see her almost every day.

Bob,

Thank you for sharing this. Thank you for trusting us to hear about your loss. She was, and is, an angel. This was truly a good one going too soon. I'm sorry for your loss.

So sorry to hear this. Prayers your way

Blue, I hope you find a way forward, try to live the life your Angel would want you to live, remember the good times, enjoy and love the four creations you made together! I share in the sorrow and pain.

Sincerely,

Fishingmickey

Prayers to you and your family. I can’t imagine how you are feeling, keep your head up, stay busy and keep your friends and family close.

I'm very sorry Bob, and I can't imagine how difficult it is to try and stay strong for your children. She was truly an angel, and the world needs more people like her. Your kids had an incredible role model and I'm sure they were raised to follow in her footsteps of benevolence and generosity. I'm praying for your family, and I hope one day you can find peace and joy in life again.

Bob, I am sorry for your loss. I know it may not feel like it at times, but what a lucky man. 36 years with such a wonderful woman.

I’m sorry for the pain you and your family are going through Bob.

I feel sorrow for you and your loss. My condolences to everyone in your family and friends included.

She sounds like a wonder person.

I am sorry.

Oh no Bob, so sorry for your loss. On your way up the Maine Turnpike you'll see a Jigfishn look-alike at the rest area on exit 25 saying a prayer for you.

I'm so sorry to hear this, Bob. It sounds like you had a great life together with lots of wonderful memories. She will always be with you in your heart, and through your children. I'll be praying for comfort in the coming days for you, and your family.

Bob, please accept my condolences, So sorry to hear that. Wish you and the rest of your family the best.

I'm so very sorry for your loss.

Awwwww Bob. I’m so so sorry man.

I'm sorry to hear of your wife's passing Bob. She sounds like a truly incredible person. Count yourself a lucky man to have been blessed with 36 wonderful years together. I'll be praying for healing for you and your family every day brother. God bless you and yours.

Bob!!! Our hearts ache for you and your family. But we love ya and are praying for everyone, BR crew is here when you need us

I am very sorry for your loss. She sounds like a wonderful Wife and a great Mom.

I know nothing can ever fill the void but I hope that one day the good memories will outweigh the heartache. We will keep your family in our prayers.

Really sorry. Can't even begin to imagine the depth of your sorrow. It sounds like you had someone really special and that makes it that much harder.

I'd just like to add that by the very act of sharing, you're on the path to healing. Just take it one day at time.